It whets your appetite with a taste of success!

Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but non about his or her own.

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Killing Time

Tuesday, 06th of July 2010
15:08 h

Now I'm sitting here, doing nothing actually. Just killing time before I go to the gym to burn fats, fats and more fats.

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Ang init init ng panahon ngayon, nakakatamad kumilos, wala nga akong gana kumain dahil sa sobrang init!! Pero gusto ko  ng halo-halo ng Chowking o kaya'y mag palamig sa Rockwell, MOA, Megamall o kung saan man mall na malapit lang sa bahay. Ang sarap din siguro mag swimming ngayon o kaya ay mag punta sa beach sa Bora, Palawan,Davao,Pagudpud,Caramoan at kung saan saan beach na magaganda sa Pilipinas.

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Buong araw na yata akong nag daydreaming, dahil sa hindi ako makatulog. Kahit sa gabi ay nag "nnightdreaming" naman ako lol. Ang tagal ko na din hindi nararamdaman tong sakit ng tyan na hindi mawala wala, parang may kumukurot sa sikmura ko,hindi ako mapakali. Eh sa wala naman akong dahilan para magkaganito.. Ah, ewan!!

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Ang dami kong hinihintay ngayon araw na to, dumating na si mama para matapos nya nang maluto ang masarap naming lunch, hinihintay ko din matapos ma dl yung song na ni recommend ng isang kaibigan, at naghihintay ng sagot.

Oh well, wala talaga ako magawa :D  

THE ART OF SEDUCTION

They say I'm the charmer ...
Which seducer are you?
1-THE SIREN

A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play-by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a world of pure pleasure. She is dangerous, and in pursuing her energetically the man can lose control over himself, something he yearns to do. The Siren is a mirage; she lures men by cultivating a particular appearance and manner. In a world where women are often too timid to project such an image, learn to take control of the male libido by embodying his fantasy.

2-THE RAKE

A woman never quite feels desired and appreciated enough. She wants attention, but a man is too often distracted and unresponsive. The Rake is a great female fantasy-figure-when he desires a woman, brief though that moment may be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her. He may be disloyal, dishonest, and amoral, but that only adds to his appeal. Unlike the normal, cautious male, the Rake is delightfully unrestrained, a slave to his love of women. There is the added lure of his reputation: so many women have succumbed to him, there has to be a reason. Words are a woman's weakness, and the Rake is a master of seductive language. Stir a woman's repressed longings by adapting the Rake's mix of danger and pleasure.

3-THE IDEAL LOVER

Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. They find themselves disappointed by people, events, reality, which cannot match their youthful ideals. Ideal Lovers thrive on people's broken dreams, which become lifelong fantasies. You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The Ideal Lover reflects your fantasy. He or she is an artist in creating the illusion you require, idealizing your portrait. In a world of disenchantment and baseness, there is limitless seductive power in following the path of the Ideal Lover.

4-THE DANDY

Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid, more ambiguous, than we are-those who create their own persona. Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves. They play with masculinity and femininity; they create their own physical image, which is always startling; they are mysterious and elusive. They also appeal to the narcissism of each sex: to a woman they are psychologically female, to a man they are male. Dandies fascinate and seduce in large numbers. Use the power of the Dandy to create an ambiguous, alluring presence that stirs repressed desires.

5-THE NATURAL

Childhood is the golden paradise we are always consciously or unconsciously trying to re-create. The Natural embodies the longed-for qualities of childhood-spontaneity, sincerity, unpretentiousness. In the presence of Naturals, we feel at ease, caught up in their playful spirit, transported back to that golden age. Naturals also make a virtue out of weakness, eliciting our sympathy for their trials, making us want to protect them and help them. As with a child, much of this is natural, but some of it is exaggerated, a conscious seductive maneuver. Adopt the pose of the Natural to neutralize people's natural defensiveness and infect them with helpless delight.

6-THE COQUETTE

The ability to delay satisfaction is the ultimate art of seduction-while waiting, the victim is held in thrall. Coquettes are the grand masters of this game, orchestrating a back-and-forth movement between hope and frustration. They bait with the promise of reward-the hope of physical pleasure, happiness, fame by association, power-which, however, proves elusive; yet this only makes their targets pursue them the more. Coquettes seem totally self-sufficient: they do not need you, they seem to say, and their narcissism proves devilishly attractive. You want to conquer them but they hold the cards. The strategy of the Coquette is never to offer total satisfaction. Imitate the alternating heat and coolness of the Coquette and you will keep the seduced at your heels.

7-THE CHARMER

Charm is seduction without sex. Charmers are consummate manipulators, masking their cleverness by creating a mood of pleasure and comfort. Their method is simple: they deflect attention from themselves and focus it on their target. They understand your spirit, feel your pain, adapt to your moods. In the presence of a Charmer you feel better about yourself. Charmers do not argue or fight, complain or pester-what could be more seductive? By drawing you in with their indulgence they make you dependent on them, and their power grows. Learn to cast the Charmer's spell by aiming at people's primary weaknesses: vanity and self-esteem.

8-THE CHARISMATIC

Charisma is a presence that excites us. It comes from an inner quality-self-confidence, sexual energy, sense of purpose, contentment-that most people lack and want. This quality radiates outward, permeating the gestures of Charismatics, making them seem extraordinary and superior, and making us imagine there is more to them than meets the eye: they are gods, saints, stars. Charismatics can learn to heighten their charisma with a piercing gaze, fiery oratory, an air of mystery. They can seduce on a grand scale. Learn to create the charismatic illusion by radiating intensity while remaining detached.

9-THE STAR

Daily life is harsh, and most of us constantly seek escape from it in fantasies and dreams. Stars feed on this weakness; standing out from others through a distinctive and appealing style, they make us want to watch them. At the same time, they are vague and ethereal, keeping their distance, and letting us imagine more than is there. Their dreamlike quality works on our unconscious; we are not even aware how much we imitate them. Learn to become an object of fascination by projecting the glittering but elusive presence of the Star.

10-THE ANTI-SEDUCER

Seducers draw you in by the focused, individualized attention they pay to you. Anti-Seducers are the opposite: insecure, self-absorbed, and unable to grasp the psychology of another person, they literally repel. Anti-Seducers have no self-awareness, and never realize when they are pestering, imposing, talking too much. They lack the subtlety to create the promise of pleasure that seduction requires. Root out anti-seductive qualities in yourself, and recognize them in others-there is no pleasure or profit in dealing with the Anti-Seducer.
THE SEDUCER'S VICTIMS- THE EIGHTEEN TYPES

The people around you are all potential victims of a seduction, but first you must know what type of victim you are dealing with. Victims are categorized by what they feel they are missing in life-adventure, attention, romance, a naughty experience, mental or physical stimulation, etc. Once you identify their type, you have the necessary ingredients for a seduction: you will be the one to give them what they lack, and cannot get on their own. In studying potential victims, learn to see the reality behind the appearance. A timid person may yearn to play the star; a prude may long for a transgressive thrill. Never try to seduce your own type.

I miss...interpret

Madaming kabataang Pinoy dito sa Europa ang hindi marunong mag Tagalog sa maraming dahilan: dito na pinanganak, walang kaibigan pinoy, hindi sinanay ng mga magulang magsalita ng sariling wika o minsan naman ay mismong nanay at tatay na ang pilit kinalimutan dahil sa "feeling nila" ay sa ganoon paraan mas magiging integrated sila sa bansang tinitirahan.

Madami din sa teenagers ngayon nag dadatingan galing sa Pilipinas, mga binata at dalaga ang karamihan pa ay galing probinsya na dinala sa abroad upang mag aral at magkaroon ng magandang kinabukasan.
Sa eskwelahan kailangan nilang mag adjust sa Spanish at Catalan (dahil asa Barcelona ako :D ) makihalo sa mga teenagers na puti kahit hindi sila nagkakaintindihan, kaya ang iba ay tinamad na mag aral, nagiging tambay at ang mga tanging kaibigan nila ay kapwa pilipino na din.

Meron naman mga kabataan na kahit dito man ipinanganak, dito man lumaki at mga espanyol man ang kaibigan ay hasa parin sa pagsasalita sa wikang Kastila, Tagalog at mismong dialecto ng kanilang probinsya ay alam.

Pag dating naman sa Ingles ay kilala ang Pilipinas na magagaling, English speaking nga daw. Ang dahilan siguro ay katulad dito sa Barcelona na Catalan ang official language na itinuturo sa mga paraalan ganun din sa Pilipinas at dahil na din siguro sa malaking impluwensya ng America sa bansa.

Kaya naman sa karamihan ng trabaho dito sa Espanya lalo na sa sector ng Hosteleria (hotel and restaurant) malaki ang chances ng mga kababayan kong pinoy na matanggap. Una, masipag ang mga ito, mabibilis kumilos at pulido mag trabaho,pangalawa ay dahil malaki ang advantage nila sa mga kastila, nakakaintindi at nakakapag salita ng kahit papaano ng ingles, na malaking tulong sa kumpanya dahil sa Tourist spot ang Barcelona at marami ang mga pumupunta at nag babakasyon dito.


P.S: may nakita akong message galing sa isang kakilala ko at ang sabi... " Bro, I'm sorry I can't uplode your pictures because i have a meating today"

*Bow*

Pilipinas kong mahal

Hindi man ako lumaki sa bansa kung saan galing ang aking mga magulang gustong gusto ko ito laging puntahan.


Tandang tanda ko pa ng asa airport kami habang pababa ng ramp ng NAIA 1 ang unang pumasok sa isip ko ay " Ano to, parang kulungan?!! bakit nasa rehas ang mga tao?! " ang init init pati hangit sobrang init, hindi makahinga ng mabuti dahil sa alikabok na nasasanghap ko galing sa mga sasakyan, isang daan na jeepney, nagkalat na tricycle, may pedicab pa!


Year 2005 pa yun, 2 weeks pa lang ako sa Pilipinas gusto ko na Bumalik sa abroad, hindi ako sanay halos maiyak iyak ako dahil sa walang kakilala, walang kaibigan, walang makausap. Pero habang nagtatagal natuto akong makipag kaibigan, maging open sa mga usapin nila na madalas hindi ko maintindihan, mga jokes na hindi ako makasabay nung una ay unti unti kong na "gets" at nakikitawa na din ako. For short IN na ako!


Pilipinas na mahigit pitong libo na isla, magkakaibang dialecto, tradition,pagkain at kung ano ano pa. Sa totoo lang wala pa talaga ako nararating sa Pilipinas, maliban sa ilang mga kilala at sumisikat na isla ngayon dahil sa turismo.

Pilipinas, masasabi kong kahit maalikabok, madumi ang city, madaming sasakyan, sobrang traffic, hindi maganda ang aspalto sa daan, mga ligaw na pusa umaakyat sa bubong ng bahay at nag aaway, basura na naipon.. sa kabila ng lahat masarap uwian ang sariling bansa dahil sa masasarap na pagkain, magagandang white sand beaches, mga cool at astig na gimikan, mga malls na kala mo ay nasa isang european country ka at higit sa lahat masarap uwian ang Pilipinas dahil sa mga naiwan nating mga mahal sa buhay at mga kaibigan (bagong kaibigan ko)


Nangungulila ako sa aking mahal na bansa (tama ba?) :D


Sama ka, biyahe tayo!

"Amicus"

Seguro que tu tienes muchos conocidos ya sean de la calle,del trabajo,de la infancia y amigos familiares. Da gusto tener amigos con quien reir, compartir momentos inolvidables, viajar con ellos, beber hasta no poder, vamos amigos de esos que les llamas " de verdad".


Pero hay momentos en que necesitas una persona que te entienda y te comprenda, que este contigo no solo en los momentos mas felices sino tambien en los momentos mas duros de tu vida. Epocas en que crees que estas al limite de tus capacidades.. y venga este gran amigo tuyo y te diga "nunca te dejare, pase lo que pase.. tu puedes porque yo estare contigo para ayudarte".. Amigos que nunca te piden nada a cambio.. amigos amigos amigos..


Aquel amigo que no necesitas decirle nada porque sabe que te pasa, sabe como piensas en cada reaccion, sabe escucharte sin compadecerse de ti, te cuida, te mima, te quiere, te comprende y confia en ti.


En mi epoca de adolescente, cuando hacia todo lo que queria, estuviera bien o mal, le gustaran a mis padres o no, siempre quise tener ese gran amigo que me dijera "deja de hacer tonterias", "no sigas por ese camino o acabaras mal" pero desafortunadamente nunca lo tuve.


Ahora ya no soy tan niña, ya supe que era lo bueno y lo malo.. pero sigo buscando ese gran amigo con el que siempre soñe. Lo encontrare tarde o temprano o.. quizas el me encuentre?!


Y tu, tienes tu gran amigo?